Whats going on with not picking the best answer?

While Golden Feather so glad someone else has ask this question. I find it to be very disrespectful to the people that took the time to answer. Some people want something for nothing, some know that if there is no best answer they get their 5 points back. Some say I don't know how to choose best answer (BULL) its self explanatory. Some say I didn't come back but you see them here asking other questions. It does not matter who gets the best answer but it should be done out of simple courtesy. I am aware that things happen and you can not make it back but there are just to many not make it backs. I have also stopped not on as much. Did have singles and dating, friends, and football. But as you can see one is gone (friends). And I am going to let singles and dating drop also. Will just answer in football, on a lot of sites their are reward systems that does not depend on the questioner, but on your participation..